本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I am not realy sure how human being developes the moral standards. Why we have the feeling of shy or guilty or whatever other kinds of feeling, and wild animals have not. And also i guess the foundation of law of human sociaties is based on the basic moral standards. Acient people think it is not good to kill someone, gradually it is agreed by most people and finally being written into the law book.
Moral is to protect the weak? I think it is right to certain degree. Basically, moral is to let people to judge what is good and what is bad, what is right and what is wrong. But moral standards in different cultures and different groups of people are different. And moral standards can be changed from time to time. Even the law can be changed too.
I guess the sequence is like this. Rising Moral issuse--most of people agree certain moral stands--become certain regulations of law-- some regulations of law are out of date, not fit in anymore--rewrite--vote--upon most people's will--new regulations of law.
Using law to regulate people's social behavior is more democratic and scientific, easy and simple. Chinese get use to using moral standards to guide people's behaivor and judge others. Which one is better, different people have different opinions.
This specific case, i also can percieve it in another angle: For an male adult can not enjoy the nomal sex life, it is immoral. He can support his wife and spiritually( or physically) support another man's wife, he is moral. Ha , who knows.
I very much doubt the marriage system. If more than 50% marriages end up with devoices, one male and one female marriage system seems not work very well. We need find a new way to solve this problem.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net