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(1) I use check list at home for kids. The check list contains items which should be complete by kids in everyday life, such as:
Morning: make bed, wash face, brush teeth, etc.
Homework, no noted from school. etc.
Clean table before dinner, help parents, etc.
(2) For each day, there are pre-designed house points for each kid, if he finished items from whole day check list, he will get points.
(3) There are dedicated points for a toy( or book ), if kid gets enough points, he will get the toy or book listed from his wish list.
(4) No explicit punishment method for kids. Because they get punishment if they don't get points, no toys.
It works. Also, I send kids to private school, they complete homework when are picked up from school, At home, they can just enjoy playing. I don't send them to other classes after school, because the school does have many interesting activities, like ballet, music instrument, gym, leadership, etc. For Chinese, they learned Pinyin and can read book, if there is Pinyin on it. They cannot write Chinese now. Well, their Chinese study is now my concern...更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
(1) I use check list at home for kids. The check list contains items which should be complete by kids in everyday life, such as:
Morning: make bed, wash face, brush teeth, etc.
Homework, no noted from school. etc.
Clean table before dinner, help parents, etc.
(2) For each day, there are pre-designed house points for each kid, if he finished items from whole day check list, he will get points.
(3) There are dedicated points for a toy( or book ), if kid gets enough points, he will get the toy or book listed from his wish list.
(4) No explicit punishment method for kids. Because they get punishment if they don't get points, no toys.
It works. Also, I send kids to private school, they complete homework when are picked up from school, At home, they can just enjoy playing. I don't send them to other classes after school, because the school does have many interesting activities, like ballet, music instrument, gym, leadership, etc. For Chinese, they learned Pinyin and can read book, if there is Pinyin on it. They cannot write Chinese now. Well, their Chinese study is now my concern...更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net