You work so damn hard is for what? For better life. Without a better woman, there is not a better life. How to attract a better woman? Your confident and healthy attitude to life. Then I want to ask you: where does the man's confidence come from? Most ordinary men's confidence come from money. Just like the male peacocks confidence come form their fancy leather. So don't blame ladies. Most ladies need money and the security feeling brought from money. Except few special and excellent ladies. But remember, there are only few such kind of women in real life.