1. The most important word for any marriage: communication,communication, communication.
2. Give the husband some credit. We as moms like to take over when we take care of babies. That makes daddies feel like they are excluded from the team. Let him take care of the baby for a while, let him do what he thinks right even if you feel nervous about it. (I sometimes had to walk away as I just can't help tell him what he should do)
3. Try to give your husband some attention. It is also good for the baby as he/she needs to grow in a loving family and he/she will learn a lot from it. In the mean time, I think your husband was right, you need to have your own life even after you have kids.
2. Give the husband some credit. We as moms like to take over when we take care of babies. That makes daddies feel like they are excluded from the team. Let him take care of the baby for a while, let him do what he thinks right even if you feel nervous about it. (I sometimes had to walk away as I just can't help tell him what he should do)
3. Try to give your husband some attention. It is also good for the baby as he/she needs to grow in a loving family and he/she will learn a lot from it. In the mean time, I think your husband was right, you need to have your own life even after you have kids.