If you can say "I love him/her because of this and that " , may be you don't really love him/her. All you love is just his/her something else.
If you ask yourself " Why do I love him/her ? ", and your answere is " I don't know why. I just love him/her. " . That means you really in love with him/her. If it's you, you are lucky. Not everybody in the world can get this feeling in their whole life, even if they are married with kid.
That's kind of sad, but the truth is the one that you marry may not be the one that you love.
If you ask yourself " Why do I love him/her ? ", and your answere is " I don't know why. I just love him/her. " . That means you really in love with him/her. If it's you, you are lucky. Not everybody in the world can get this feeling in their whole life, even if they are married with kid.
That's kind of sad, but the truth is the one that you marry may not be the one that you love.