本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛A girl and a boy fell in love when they were in college. It's the girl's first relationship also it's the boy's first.. when they graduated , the girl said I wanted to break up with u. Then they broke up. The boy was very sad. They were still friends. They both were thinking about join together again for two years. At the meanwhile , the girl went to Beijing and found a good job. The boy quit his job at small city , chased the girl to Beijing.
It's a chance finally get back together. But they failed. The girl found out herself changed. After worked in big city, she has moved on, her view and opion changed. The boy isn't fit her anymore. She made her mind : they can't get back . The boy was very very sad ,you know he chased the girl to Beijing , and failed.
The conclusion is the relationship like the mirror once broken can't fix it anymore.The first love is hard to get over.The boy and the girl took 2 years to get over it. Two years for young people are treasure.
My story didn't end here. It continued another two years.
The girl felt guilty for the boy. They didn't contact each other anymore. He posted sad articles on their classmate message board. The girl feel very bad about herself. They have ever love each other from heart. He suffers , she suffers too. She worried about him. She thought he lived in a bad life because of her.
After two years, the girl still single. one day, the girl suddenly found out the boy have girlfriend.The boy go out with his current girlfriend since he went back from Beijing.
She got very mad. She feel guilty , she feel bad about herself, she worried about him. She even punish herself for two years. But he make new girlfriend very fast , he live very good. He didn't tell her he's ok for two years. She feel hurt deeply.
Conclusion -- Anyone can live well without you, include your ex-boyfriend. Don't feel guilty . Don't punish youself. The whole world move on. Nothing stays.
I don't like to remenber this story.When i remember it, I feel hurt. and anger.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
It's a chance finally get back together. But they failed. The girl found out herself changed. After worked in big city, she has moved on, her view and opion changed. The boy isn't fit her anymore. She made her mind : they can't get back . The boy was very very sad ,you know he chased the girl to Beijing , and failed.
The conclusion is the relationship like the mirror once broken can't fix it anymore.The first love is hard to get over.The boy and the girl took 2 years to get over it. Two years for young people are treasure.
My story didn't end here. It continued another two years.
The girl felt guilty for the boy. They didn't contact each other anymore. He posted sad articles on their classmate message board. The girl feel very bad about herself. They have ever love each other from heart. He suffers , she suffers too. She worried about him. She thought he lived in a bad life because of her.
After two years, the girl still single. one day, the girl suddenly found out the boy have girlfriend.The boy go out with his current girlfriend since he went back from Beijing.
She got very mad. She feel guilty , she feel bad about herself, she worried about him. She even punish herself for two years. But he make new girlfriend very fast , he live very good. He didn't tell her he's ok for two years. She feel hurt deeply.
Conclusion -- Anyone can live well without you, include your ex-boyfriend. Don't feel guilty . Don't punish youself. The whole world move on. Nothing stays.
I don't like to remenber this story.When i remember it, I feel hurt. and anger.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net