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Make it a good series--step 1: Let it off your chest 2. Step 2: since you also want a higher salary, make up your plan and communicate with your wife so that she can nicely shut up

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Take losing weight for an example, don't simply set your goals as " I will lose 20 pounds by @@@ time". Instead, think over, set your ACTION ORIENTED goal this way

"Limite myself to 50g of fat per day--i.e. track fat intake, start buying leaner meat, add grilled fish to my diet, eat smaller portion of high fat foods, and substitue yogurt for ice creaem. Ride my bike around the part for 30 min every morning. If I miss my ride, I wil go for a brisk walk in the evening."

Concentrate your energy on getting your job done, do not worry about praise or blame you will receive and never let them impact your emotionaly. Your reward should be great satisfaction from consistently achieving your sub-goals. You should not focus on what others comment about you. On good days and bad days, you should neither be intimidated by people who earns more than you do nor overwhelmed with a sense of superiority when you earn more than other do. Focus on how well you achive your specific goal at each stage of your career.

If you share such a concrete, specifice and actioan-oriented goals with your wife, I assure you she will shut up. Also, it is man's responsibility to educate your wife as well and make her think in such a frame i/o just focus on the money. If thinks do not work, after you let it off your chest, act!

If the screw does become loose, a little bit of driving is necessary in my personal opinion because a reasonable screwdriver will do the screw better than a rotten screw joint does.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 工作学习 / 事业与工作 / 我也来诉苦.
    • 如果仅想着挣多少钱,移民加拿大就算是白来了.挣钱是生活的手段,但不是目的.如果移民后还没明白生活的目的,无论经济上的问题是否得到解决,生活品质难有大的改观.看来,是重新思考生活的意义的时候了.
      • 挺.
      • 说的好!
    • 你和LP说,别一直逼我,家里压力太大会把老公送给外人的。
      • 看来你对你自己很有信心-仍然有人要你. 这种话我已经不敢轻易对LP说了. :-)
        • 怎么会有LP这样贬低LG啊?不是等于贬低自己当初没有眼光嫁错人吗?
          • 她除了父母还能和谁说呢。当然最好背着老公。
    • "我的收入在加拿大是贫困线.我的能力应该可以拿3倍以上的工资" - 让他参阅这几天刚发生的“双博”事件. 另外你老婆心中加拿大的贫困线是多少?
    • 最近夫权抬头。。。
    • Either u straight it out with your wife or ... ; How can you live under this everyday?
    • 说这些,只是一个引子.....无需要太过PERSONAL的评论.
      • "我当她放屁." It is a good attitude. :-)
    • 这年头,兵荒马乱的,凑合活两天得了
    • 离家出走
    • 楼主家里人要求150K以上!!
      加拿大平均家庭收入是55K左右,难道楼主家里人要求150K以上,这也要求太高了吧,连一般的director都拿不到这么多的,看来楼主只有孤身去美国了 哈哈。。。
      • 你看什么那?贫困线和平均线能是一回事吗?
      • 况且说加拿大平均家庭收入也远不止55k啊.比这多多了.没一样说准了.
        • 平均收入55k可是报纸上登地
          平均收入55k可是报纸上登地

          贫困线收入都是从来没有注意到
    • 爽过了经常找你的鬼妹吗?
    • Make it a good series--step 1: Let it off your chest 2. Step 2: since you also want a higher salary, make up your plan and communicate with your wife so that she can nicely shut up
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Take losing weight for an example, don't simply set your goals as " I will lose 20 pounds by @@@ time". Instead, think over, set your ACTION ORIENTED goal this way

      "Limite myself to 50g of fat per day--i.e. track fat intake, start buying leaner meat, add grilled fish to my diet, eat smaller portion of high fat foods, and substitue yogurt for ice creaem. Ride my bike around the part for 30 min every morning. If I miss my ride, I wil go for a brisk walk in the evening."

      Concentrate your energy on getting your job done, do not worry about praise or blame you will receive and never let them impact your emotionaly. Your reward should be great satisfaction from consistently achieving your sub-goals. You should not focus on what others comment about you. On good days and bad days, you should neither be intimidated by people who earns more than you do nor overwhelmed with a sense of superiority when you earn more than other do. Focus on how well you achive your specific goal at each stage of your career.

      If you share such a concrete, specifice and actioan-oriented goals with your wife, I assure you she will shut up. Also, it is man's responsibility to educate your wife as well and make her think in such a frame i/o just focus on the money. If thinks do not work, after you let it off your chest, act!

      If the screw does become loose, a little bit of driving is necessary in my personal opinion because a reasonable screwdriver will do the screw better than a rotten screw joint does.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • 这样的老婆该休掉.:))
    • 请问多少算贫困线?