you need to be a patient teacher,who can show your man your tender love,who can encourage him when he looks weak,but you also need to be one who can make your man care about you, remind of him,tell him in your ways. you can talk with him formally,when the kids were sleeeping,you need to have a talk with him in the midnight! a red candle,a cup of wine,say the idea in your heart, tell him when you need a hug,a kiss,and even a word. you can endure something in short time,but never keep it in your heart all the time,find the right moment, talk in the right way.that is all you need to do!