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好奇问一下：有多少人和ex都还能保持友好关系？因为看见隔壁有人问该不该打电话给已婚前男友。

havefun(havefun)

以前大学里一女同学，分手后都能和ex们保持朋友关系。真让我们一帮“情商”不高的室友赞叹。
可是观察所得，大多数男女朋友分手后，都是避免见面的。被飞的一方自然耿耿于怀，不愿再见。爱得深当然伤得深，哪里还能给你再来撒盐。
另外观察所得：一般来说，女性才会有这种“打电话给前男友”的念头，不知是好奇还是怎地。相比较之下，男性比较决绝，如果他们是“受害方”，自尊心受损，才不要理你；如果他们是“施害方”，男性会比较容易move on。你看很多几十载夫妻的，老婆死了没1年半载的，老公就已经花开二度了；而女性在这种情况下，很快再婚的比率好像较低。
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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 好奇问一下：有多少人和ex都还能保持友好关系？因为看见隔壁有人问该不该打电话给已婚前男友。 -havefun(havefun); 2006-4-6 {534} (#2888866@0)
以前大学里一女同学，分手后都能和ex们保持朋友关系。真让我们一帮“情商”不高的室友赞叹。
可是观察所得，大多数男女朋友分手后，都是避免见面的。被飞的一方自然耿耿于怀，不愿再见。爱得深当然伤得深，哪里还能给你再来撒盐。
另外观察所得：一般来说，女性才会有这种“打电话给前男友”的念头，不知是好奇还是怎地。相比较之下，男性比较决绝，如果他们是“受害方”，自尊心受损，才不要理你；如果他们是“施害方”，男性会比较容易move on。你看很多几十载夫妻的，老婆死了没1年半载的，老公就已经花开二度了；而女性在这种情况下，很快再婚的比率好像较低。
是吧？

To me. The answer is No. Do not like too compicated relationship and lack of capabilities to handle it. -hotmoon(Who cares!); 2006-4-6 (#2889130@0)

shake hands~~ -maxtrixgg(MaxtrixGG); 2006-4-9 {20} (#2894918@0)
只有皮厚的人可以做到
I am with you on this -crouchingdog(黑石头); 2006-4-12 (#2902000@0)

Why not? I will definitely make that phone call. -asker(asker); 2006-4-6 (#2889215@0)
If I want to call someone, I just call. Life is short, isn't it? -asker(asker); 2006-4-6 (#2889217@0)

That is why you are Asker. I am Hotmoon. -hotmoon(Who cares!); 2006-4-6 (#2889225@0)

I will not only call him, but also send his child some gifts to celebrate his fatherhood with best wishes. -asker(asker); 2006-4-6 (#2889221@0)

I do hope I am your former boyfriend or ex-husband. -hotmoon(Who cares!); 2006-4-6 (#2889230@0)

Ex-husband? Gee, give me a break. :) -asker(asker); 2006-4-7 (#2890233@0)

就是，要和茶还是来杯咖啡？ -zheyi(春天跟着小雨来了吗); 2006-4-9 (#2894405@0)

我不会那么做,这样会让那个男人太得意了. -tutu888(starry); 2006-4-13 (#2903542@0)

The thing is that I care about how I feel. If I feel happy to call him and send him gifts, I just do it. Happiness is mutual. -asker(asker); 2006-4-14 (#2905024@0)

i never called my ex-boyfirnd after broke up and won't call in the furture. i just cannot understand those girls who still in touch with their ex-. it is really embrassing i think. -may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼); 2006-4-9 (#2894215@0)

真没想到你也懂洋文啊 -bicycle(單車); 2006-4-9 (#2894926@0)
Embarrassing or not depends how how you personally perceive it. If you perceive calling your ex as a friendly hello but nothing other than that, you won't feel embarrassing. -asker(asker); 2006-4-10 (#2895914@0)

...depends on.. -asker(asker); 2006-4-10 (#2895916@0)
..feel embarrassed.. -asker(asker); 2006-4-10 (#2895918@0)

除了初恋，其他都无所谓的吧。 -once(chocolate); 2006-4-9 (#2894657@0)

What a heart-breaking statement. -asker(asker); 2006-4-10 (#2895919@0)

cause heart's broken since the first love.... -once(chocolate); 2006-4-10 (#2896045@0)

一方初恋，一方不是初恋的呢？是初恋给非初恋打，还是非初恋给初恋打 -vega_lee(天津包子-就不改); 2006-4-10 (#2895928@0)

你属于哪种吧。之后我具体解释 -once(chocolate); 2006-4-10 (#2896046@0)

:))))))))))) -asker(asker); 2006-4-12 (#2901567@0)

haha , 有趣 -ltxr164605(论坛闲人); 2006-4-13 (#2903440@0)
据你分析,那么那种现在和前GF联系的男人是什么心态呢? -tutu888(starry); 2006-4-13 (#2903536@0)

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好奇问一下：有多少人和ex都还能保持友好关系？因为看见隔壁有人问该不该打电话给已婚前男友。

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