本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛The teacher in daycare even told me she would do special observation on my son's violence.Of course i said "NO. it is too early and you are overeactive".(.Actaully that teacher did lots of overeaction.) I did not do anything special other than trying offering more happyness to him in order to let him relax...I do not remember when it had gone.
Anyway i understand that as it is not uncommon in this age particularly the children can not express themself and understand the world around them very well.Anyone need express themself to release the stress If they can not do it verbally they do it by behavior.
Please do not do too much punishment which will make things worse.In the first 2 months When my son upgraded to preschool from tolddler he changed so much everyday the teacher complained to me on his hitting,kicking.spitting......I was worried about him very much.Sometimes i punished him or i lost temper on him,which did not work at all.One day after i finished one whole parenting book one sentence impressed me.That is when environment around your children changed you can not expect her/his behavior doesn't change.it is normal. If the parents lose temper on their children that only can make things worse. I felt so guilty and i changed my own way. I understand my son,who like stable,was too stressful to be himself in the new room though it was in the same daycare. Actaully from them on i realized that children have their own way to adjust or see this world, which is what we do not remember from our own childhood or we do not understand from adulthood.What i can do is to listen and undersand them.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
Anyway i understand that as it is not uncommon in this age particularly the children can not express themself and understand the world around them very well.Anyone need express themself to release the stress If they can not do it verbally they do it by behavior.
Please do not do too much punishment which will make things worse.In the first 2 months When my son upgraded to preschool from tolddler he changed so much everyday the teacher complained to me on his hitting,kicking.spitting......I was worried about him very much.Sometimes i punished him or i lost temper on him,which did not work at all.One day after i finished one whole parenting book one sentence impressed me.That is when environment around your children changed you can not expect her/his behavior doesn't change.it is normal. If the parents lose temper on their children that only can make things worse. I felt so guilty and i changed my own way. I understand my son,who like stable,was too stressful to be himself in the new room though it was in the same daycare. Actaully from them on i realized that children have their own way to adjust or see this world, which is what we do not remember from our own childhood or we do not understand from adulthood.What i can do is to listen and undersand them.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net