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比较难

fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼)

找结婚男人吧，人家有家有口的，老婆肯定不同意。有功夫人家要配家里人呐。

找单身男人吧，陪你花前月下，你的心理得到了满足，而人家的生理却处于长期的
饥渴。男方付出大量的精力和金钱，却颗粒无收，有那功夫还不如去CLUB里找小姐呐。

不管是什么样的关系，都是要付出的。如果不能付出对方需要的，你只好自己孤独
了。不过不妨找个“和尚”试试? 或找找GAY。不过GAY对女人也没有什么兴趣。

So, 还是和老公好好过吧，墙外的世界很精彩，墙外的世界很无奈！

千万别相信男人和你交往会没有性方面的企图。又不是孩子了。除非你愿意找60以
上的男朋友聊天。

很多女人都不明白为什么男人需要性，其实很简单。男人通过性来释放生活和工作的
压力。就象女人要流眼泪一样。

顺便胡说一句，看NBA姚明的球老是不具备统治力，为什么？因为他还没有结婚。结
婚后，保证他是NBA第一条好汉。

男人离开女人，不是一个完整的男人。

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try more talk with people around you and be open-minded and caring. -bjmoto(Moto); 2005-12-23 (#2679468@0)

"best" -warmbedtonight(来吧...); 2005-12-24 {297} (#2679571@0)

"best"本身代表是最好的, 在我的理解它指"唯一或极少数的", 这只能用心去体会, 去发现. 虽然现在可能没有发现, 能做的还是慢慢地等待. 这件事既难也不难, "等待, 慢慢体会"让人的感觉是一个无期的空头支票, 但你一旦感觉到了, 找到了, 其实也就兑现支票了. 这是急不来的, 耐心. 祝你能找到这样一个谈得来的人. :-)

比较难 -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-24 {784} (#2679574@0)

:-)真有人象我一样工作到深夜? 好. 不过要注意身体噢. -warmbedtonight(来吧...); 2005-12-24 (#2679577@0)

你才到哪儿？ -bolo(情深海岸); 2005-12-24 (#2679583@0)

:-) 您更厉害, 佩服. -warmbedtonight(来吧...); 2005-12-24 (#2679970@0)

没雪赏喽。还是俺的吃的计划经得住考验啵。；） -eglispa(一呵呵); 2005-12-24 (#2679983@0)

一周前不叫告诉你...圣诞节不下雪吗????可能回下雨...:))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 (#2679987@0)

还是吃好，什么天都不误。再说了，没听说“要想攫住女人的心，要先攫住她的胃”嘛。 -eglispa(一呵呵); 2005-12-24 (#2679990@0)

这是拿来的歪里...那好..我先拽你的胃啦.....红酒伺候...每人两瓶....先品酒...品的舌头麻木了....当啤酒喝....:))))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 (#2679997@0)

Sounds enticing! But, 偶这病歪歪地样儿也就可以展示给老哥们儿老姐们儿了。等偶再好些吃喝玩乐的事一定加倍补偿。；） -eglispa(一呵呵); 2005-12-24 (#2680010@0)

这时候才正需要我吗?:)))))才需要关心吗?...呵呵.... -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 {16} (#2680024@0)
我好乘虚而入....

sigh, 为人打工, 苦啊...... -warmbedtonight(来吧...); 2005-12-25 (#2680733@0)

Agree with you 1st time. (i shall take a note for it). some of my best friends became others' husbands, b/c there is such a fine line between friends and lovers. -flyingkite(flyingkite); 2005-12-24 (#2679641@0)
很中肯啊。。。 -1234567i(咪发索); 2005-12-24 (#2679747@0)

表示赞同之前，先看看是谁的贴，有的贴只看就好，还是不要回的好。 -samedayrightaway(赶路一族); 2005-12-24 (#2679856@0)

@_@ -1234567i(咪发索); 2005-12-24 (#2679890@0)

"找单身男人吧，陪你花前月下，你的心理得到了满足，而人家的生理却处于长期的饥渴". Well, understandable, but how to solve it? Women are slow and need to be secured. After all, not every woman is CLUB里小姐. Moreover, -thronbill(刺玫瑰); 2005-12-24 {90} (#2679814@0)
will you trust a CLUB 小姐 and married her according to your deep inner Chinese tradition?

乱弹琴。楼主明明是在说要找个只谈心，互相理解的男性朋友。这和SLOW没有关系。你看清楚了再发言。如果她说找个了解和就可以上床的男朋友，我早就报名了-：) -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-24 (#2679826@0)

当然，补充一下，上不上得看感觉好不好，感觉不好，即没的聊，也没的上 -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-24 (#2679828@0)
Hahaha...easy. "找个只谈心" is the first step of finding a 互相理解的男性朋友 for most women. Once we find the right one, a relationship will commence. If she doesn't understant men, the boyfriend should -thronbill(刺玫瑰); 2005-12-24 {316} (#2679865@0)
educate her if he likes her (she has to be over 18) or both learn more about themselves. I strongly encourage both women and men to open themselves to each other, so that they can be more mentally healthy. But at the very begining, guys should be more patient and take a little more time to do emotional investment.
既然那么喜欢床,就编首歪诗送给老狼吧.....嘻.....:)))))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 {91} (#2679931@0)
床前明月光,

床下鞋两双,

床上狗男女,

就是她和你.....................

呵呵....^o^

请相信，每个人的内心都是孤独的。生活原本不是枯燥的，枯燥的是那个心。 -once(lost); 2005-12-24 (#2679637@0)

人心贪婪,现代生活更让它膨胀.把握好这棵心,便把握了生活. -forlove(爱在深秋); 2005-12-24 (#2679756@0)
你的心还在寻找，但你的生活已没有了情调。你要做，自由的鸟... -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-24 (#2679840@0)

为什么要找异性朋友呢 -orchid2004(orchid); 2005-12-24 (#2679761@0)

说明楼主不是同性恋者....:)))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 (#2679934@0)

所谓的异性知己，是一种边缘情感，在边缘上长期找到平衡，是种高难度的动作。同性知己一样能给你带来快乐。 -samedayrightaway(赶路一族); 2005-12-24 (#2679860@0)

agree, pretty hard to balance, especially if you and him are both single. -mayzi2005(梅子); 2005-12-24 (#2679910@0)

不好banlance就向你面倾斜....:)))))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2005-12-24 (#2679932@0)

for me, i have a very boyish side, i always keep my "pal" feelings toward my male freinds , just be freinds, nothing more. but it's just sometime hard for them to balance and it does hurt the freindships. -mayzi2005(梅子); 2005-12-24 (#2680151@0)

今天上来一看，这麽多回帖 -annylian(雨夜独醉); 2005-12-25 {454} (#2680449@0)
，我看了每一个人的观点，有很多领悟，说得都很有道理很有深度，认真地想一下，好像月圆夜老狼的话能代表我的内心（我自己都不太清楚）你的心还在寻找，但你的生活已没有了情调。你要做，自由的鸟...
I have many girl friends who i can talk to. But i always feel understanding and heart support from male friends are different compare to female friends. Sex will ruin this relationship. i really hope it is just a friendship. May be for man it is unfair. I dont know.

谢谢谢谢! -fullmoonnight(圆月夜.老狼); 2005-12-25 (#2680524@0)

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