本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛What Can You Do?
If You're A Victim:
Break the code of silence. Tell someone what's happening to you, despite your fear. It's the only way it will stop. Counsellors will keep your complaints anonymous and can find you the help you need.
While the decision to 'stand up for yourself' is ultimately yours, beware of fighting back with more violence - it only escalates the problem. Call the Kids Help Phone free of charge at 1-800-668-6868 if you have nowhere else to turn.
Peers:
Offer your support to a victim of violence. But if your friend is causing the trouble, let them know they're on a dangerous path. At some ages, nothing is more powerful than the influence of a good friend.
If You're A Perpetrator:
Eventually, you reach a point of no return in trying to convince the stereotyped 'angry young man' to stop the violence. But confidential counselling is available to you, as well. Ultimately, only you can control the decision to stop.
Teachers/Counsellors:
Watch for signs of violent behaviour and other warning markers. You'll often be the first line of defence. Call authorities if you suspect anyone is in imminent danger.
Source: SafeCanada.ca
Websites:
Bullying.org
www.bullying.org
L'Arche Canada
www.larchecanada.org
The Canadian Safe School Network
www.canadiansafeschools.com
November 14, 2005更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
If You're A Victim:
Break the code of silence. Tell someone what's happening to you, despite your fear. It's the only way it will stop. Counsellors will keep your complaints anonymous and can find you the help you need.
While the decision to 'stand up for yourself' is ultimately yours, beware of fighting back with more violence - it only escalates the problem. Call the Kids Help Phone free of charge at 1-800-668-6868 if you have nowhere else to turn.
Peers:
Offer your support to a victim of violence. But if your friend is causing the trouble, let them know they're on a dangerous path. At some ages, nothing is more powerful than the influence of a good friend.
If You're A Perpetrator:
Eventually, you reach a point of no return in trying to convince the stereotyped 'angry young man' to stop the violence. But confidential counselling is available to you, as well. Ultimately, only you can control the decision to stop.
Teachers/Counsellors:
Watch for signs of violent behaviour and other warning markers. You'll often be the first line of defence. Call authorities if you suspect anyone is in imminent danger.
Source: SafeCanada.ca
Websites:
Bullying.org
www.bullying.org
L'Arche Canada
www.larchecanada.org
The Canadian Safe School Network
www.canadiansafeschools.com
November 14, 2005更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net