1. what kind of history you are refering to? there is a big difference between having multiple boyfriends/husbands and having multiple one-night-stands. there is also a big difference between having had 20 boyfriends when you are 20 yrs old and having had the same number of boyfriends when you are 40 yrs old.
2. when did you disclose your history to your boyfriend? there is a big difference between disclosing it when you both start being serious and disclosing it when he had sunk too deep.
3. what is your perspective on your own history? do you think this is your own business only and has nothing to do with your boyfriend? do you think he should just accept it?
we all have history. the way we deal with our history is often more critical to a relationship than the history itself.
2. when did you disclose your history to your boyfriend? there is a big difference between disclosing it when you both start being serious and disclosing it when he had sunk too deep.
3. what is your perspective on your own history? do you think this is your own business only and has nothing to do with your boyfriend? do you think he should just accept it?
we all have history. the way we deal with our history is often more critical to a relationship than the history itself.