本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I don't know how old is your child.I can share my experience with you.
I went back to work when my son was 3 month old. He was with grand parents between 3 - 7 month old, then with baby sitter between 7-20 month old. He started day care full time (8am - 5pm) since he turned into 20 month old. He was hardly talk back then, although he understood some basic english. He was not diaper trained eithere.
Now he is 3.5 year old, happy, healthy and contened.
The trick is not where he goes, day care, with baby sitter, or at home.. etc
The trick is we need to provide a secure, nurturing environment for our kids.
If we are physically with kids, but not understand and address their needs (emontionally, physically....), it won't do any better than senting the kid to other places..
Look at what you are doing with your kids, how you interact with him on daily basis. Ask yourself whether you happy with the way you handle him. IIf you often feel frustrated, tired, isolated.. by staying at home, then it won't do any good to you and your kid, then send him out and enjoy the time when he is back. If you often happy, fulfilled, then stay with him, enjoy him as long as you want更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I went back to work when my son was 3 month old. He was with grand parents between 3 - 7 month old, then with baby sitter between 7-20 month old. He started day care full time (8am - 5pm) since he turned into 20 month old. He was hardly talk back then, although he understood some basic english. He was not diaper trained eithere.
Now he is 3.5 year old, happy, healthy and contened.
The trick is not where he goes, day care, with baby sitter, or at home.. etc
The trick is we need to provide a secure, nurturing environment for our kids.
If we are physically with kids, but not understand and address their needs (emontionally, physically....), it won't do any better than senting the kid to other places..
Look at what you are doing with your kids, how you interact with him on daily basis. Ask yourself whether you happy with the way you handle him. IIf you often feel frustrated, tired, isolated.. by staying at home, then it won't do any good to you and your kid, then send him out and enjoy the time when he is back. If you often happy, fulfilled, then stay with him, enjoy him as long as you want更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net