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why do you expect a girl to love you even if that means she has to go starving?

the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛in modern society financial stability has become an important criterion in judging a man's personality, character, wisdom, intelligence, charisma and level of success. of course there are others. but this is definitely among the most important ones. unable to obtain financial stability at a certain age indicates, to a certain extent, a weakness in any one of the above aspects. your financial status may not mean anything if you are out looking for fun only. but it certainly means a lot when you are asking a long term committment from the other party.
it is naive to even try to ignore the financial aspect of a relationship. financial stability alone may never bring you a happy relationship, but financial instability will definitely contribute to the deterioration of a relatioship. when you spend all your time and energy worrying about tomorrow's lunch or next month's rent there won't be much room left for romance and passion.
the only thing that can compensate current financial instability is the hope for the future. however, are you able to convince the other party this hope is reachable, not just a dream? if you cannot convince the other party then what do you have to demand the commitment from them? afterall, this compensation still originates from an awareness of financial status. it is just a postponed delivery of the promise of a healthy life.
good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 经历了一些事情，心灰意冷：多伦多没有真情，只有铜臭。想找老婆的，还是的回国找，在20出头的女孩里面找一个，那个年龄也许还会相信爱情，呵呵 -china_wei(大鹏展翅其势焉可阻挡); 2005-7-7 (#2385188@0)
    • take it easy. 现实主义者比理想主义者更容易相处, trust me. -pp_mm(◆反认他乡是故乡); 2005-7-7 (#2385195@0)
    • 不试怎么能知道?你不妨回国找找试试,别光说不动.一试说不定能吓你一跳.HA3 -icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯); 2005-7-7 (#2385229@0)
      • 我认识的非常多回国找的， 成功的占大多数， 有一个例外。 相对比在这儿找的成功率大多了。 -hahahaly(hahahaly); 2005-7-7 (#2385265@0)
        • 当然"成功率"大多了,因为中国的人还比这儿的多多呢.我想让他试的是他后面那句话.HA3 -icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯); 2005-7-7 (#2385303@0)
    • 没钱,谁都不会吊你.中国也一样. -wanle(haoshou); 2005-7-7 (#2385266@0)
    • 哥们你又被涮了?!HA# -falcon7x(鹰飘风流); 2005-7-7 (#2385610@0)
    • 看来你没有在国内找过LP.....尤其是有个中老年智慧超群的老妈的女孩, 你肯定没找过, 找过就不会这么说了 -gnits(sting); 2005-7-7 (#2385656@0)
    • 不悔自家无见识，却将丑语抵他人 -qqqqq(有翼自薄); 2005-7-7 (#2385793@0)
      • 为什么不把话说全？ -noproblem(大可以); 2005-7-7 {65} (#2385808@0)
        字未成行淫已现，话不及三涎满盆。 不悔自家无见识，却将丑语抵他人。
        • 这个也太 -qqqqq(有翼自薄); 2005-7-7 {12} (#2385849@0)
          一针见血了吧
          • A kind of... -noproblem(大可以); 2005-7-7 {36} (#2385880@0)
            你让我把跟贴删了吧，太得罪人了。。。
            • No way. -muguanai(木瓜奶); 2005-7-7 (#2385884@0)
            • 哈哈，求我是没用了 -qqqqq(有翼自薄); 2005-7-7 (#2385898@0)
    • 回去找20出头的,年龄差7~8岁,将来生理方面是否会出问题.要知道,女人三十如狼,四十如虎.而男人却是二十多,到颠峰. -byebyecanada(byebyeCanada); 2005-7-7 (#2385927@0)
      • 等女人三，四十了，再回去换个20多的回来，换到82，就到了杨老的境界了 -taptap(taptap); 2005-7-7 (#2385934@0)
        • 不要开玩笑嘛,人家说的真的担心 -byebyecanada(byebyeCanada); 2005-7-7 (#2385958@0)
    • 你能不能多挑挑自身的缺点/毛病，改变自己比改变别人容易的多。。。 -ruby92(桃逃*接受挑战); 2005-7-7 (#2386116@0)
      • 都不容易 -pp_mm(◆反认他乡是故乡); 2005-7-7 (#2386131@0)
      • 为了他人而改变自己，不如找和自己match的，其次是找为自己而改变的他人，没办法了，再考虑“为了他人而改变自己”。 -noproblem(大可以); 2005-7-7 (#2386146@0)
        • 我就是很讨厌听他老抱怨，好象都是别人不好。。。哪都有真情，问题是凭什么别人要把真情放在你身上。。。 -ruby92(桃逃*接受挑战); 2005-7-7 (#2386237@0)
    • 爱情，嗯，你爱她啥呀？她因为什么爱你呀？爱也不能当饭吃呀，最后还是扯到铜臭上。 -x888(我是来干正经事儿的。); 2005-7-7 (#2386160@0)
      • 她因为什么爱你呀? 你拿什么爱她呀? 铜臭! -pp_mm(◆反认他乡是故乡); 2005-7-7 (#2386168@0)
        • 这个太快了。开始是爱，不过也不是没选择的真爱，先是选了身份呐，样貌呀，内涵呐，然后才看来不来电。来电就算爱了。爱呀爱呀，不只是有矛盾了，还得吃饭呢。再转几个弯儿才到 ---- 铜臭！ -x888(我是来干正经事儿的。); 2005-7-7 (#2386188@0)
          • 喂，你这人说这么多废话、似是而非的话累不累？佐料还是那些佐料，怎么让你炒出来它就不是那么个滋味涅。 -muguanai(木瓜奶); 2005-7-7 (#2386825@0)
            • 我不累呀. 那你炒个有滋味的有复合楼主情况的出来呀. -x888(我是来干正经事儿的。); 2005-7-7 (#2386840@0)
              • “有滋味的有复合楼主情况的”？你这不是给我出难题嘛。不过，就算给你个面子，我在这儿替他吆喝吆喝：“喂，有哪家家长愿意把自家的闺女许给这种狗屁都不是，还把自己特当回事，臭屁臭屁的酸人的，请跟帖报名啦。” -muguanai(木瓜奶); 2005-7-7 (#2386884@0)
    • 你先说说你的条件和你的要求，最好上张照片，媒婆才好跟人讲，你回国也不能见谁年轻漂亮就跟人搭讪，看这谁认识的有合适的回国就好直接联系了。 -zvwong(_); 2005-7-8 (#2386936@0)
    • TEST ( "hello, world"); -china_wei(yeah！我说我行我就行); 2005-7-8 (#2388479@0)
    • why do you expect a girl to love you even if that means she has to go starving? -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2005-7-9 {1398} (#2389707@0)
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛in modern society financial stability has become an important criterion in judging a man's personality, character, wisdom, intelligence, charisma and level of success. of course there are others. but this is definitely among the most important ones. unable to obtain financial stability at a certain age indicates, to a certain extent, a weakness in any one of the above aspects. your financial status may not mean anything if you are out looking for fun only. but it certainly means a lot when you are asking a long term committment from the other party.
      it is naive to even try to ignore the financial aspect of a relationship. financial stability alone may never bring you a happy relationship, but financial instability will definitely contribute to the deterioration of a relatioship. when you spend all your time and energy worrying about tomorrow's lunch or next month's rent there won't be much room left for romance and passion.
      the only thing that can compensate current financial instability is the hope for the future. however, are you able to convince the other party this hope is reachable, not just a dream? if you cannot convince the other party then what do you have to demand the commitment from them? afterall, this compensation still originates from an awareness of financial status. it is just a postponed delivery of the promise of a healthy life.
      good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • Yes! If you could not give a woman good economic condition, you'd better give her a hope or a dream, or that woman will not continue to commit with you. I forget who said so, but it's really useful for most of us -china_wei(大鹏展翅其势焉可阻挡); 2005-7-9 (#2389726@0)

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