本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛to decide whether to get a divorce you may have to find out if he is the seducer or the seduced at first.
if he is the seduced then there is hope. he is only a dog who went astray temporarily. now he already tasted the forbidden. he will come back. he will realize his wrong doing. and he will not go astray again -- most likely. however if he is the seducer then you are in trouble. now it is his nature to chase and hunt. he will not stop until he is completely exhausted or destroyed. and, the worst thing is that as a hunter he enjoys the hunting (the process) as much as the prey . he is forever looking for the next prey. it has nothing to do with you -- your personality, or your charm. you could be the most beautiful woman or the most attractive one on the earth, yet it will be a great challenge for you to stop him or "convert" him. you know it better than anyone else whether he is a hunter or not. once you have the answer you just need to ask yourself whether you can put up with it or not.
no matter what is your decision don't forget the financial side of the things. Will you be financially better-off after the divorce?
after all we live in a material world and we do care/worry about our financial status. there is no reason to get rid of a husband in order to go starving -- you and your kid.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
if he is the seduced then there is hope. he is only a dog who went astray temporarily. now he already tasted the forbidden. he will come back. he will realize his wrong doing. and he will not go astray again -- most likely. however if he is the seducer then you are in trouble. now it is his nature to chase and hunt. he will not stop until he is completely exhausted or destroyed. and, the worst thing is that as a hunter he enjoys the hunting (the process) as much as the prey . he is forever looking for the next prey. it has nothing to do with you -- your personality, or your charm. you could be the most beautiful woman or the most attractive one on the earth, yet it will be a great challenge for you to stop him or "convert" him. you know it better than anyone else whether he is a hunter or not. once you have the answer you just need to ask yourself whether you can put up with it or not.
no matter what is your decision don't forget the financial side of the things. Will you be financially better-off after the divorce?
after all we live in a material world and we do care/worry about our financial status. there is no reason to get rid of a husband in order to go starving -- you and your kid.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net