my 2 cents
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-3{1003}(#2219429@0)
a few things you need to clarify before you accuse someone?
1. did you meet in a public place or somewhere else?
if it is not in a public place then why did you go with him?
2. did both of you understand you were "dating"?
if it is dating then there are things people consider as part of dating.
3. did you ask him to stop when he made advance?
there is a difference whether you asked or not
4. did he stop when he was told so?
there is a difference whether he listened to you or not.
the man did nothing wrong when he made his first advance. this could be a gesture of admiration, affection, etc.
however, he was deadly wrong if he did not stop when you told him so.
the difference between a decent man and an indecent man is that the former knows when to stop and the latter does not.
the decent man knows when to stop because of his ultimate respect for women.
the indecent man does not know when to stop because for him women are only objects to be exploited.
just my 2 cents.
写得真的是很感人, 不过仔细想一想, TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.
这么好的男人,40了还没有成家,可信吗?
-leavecanada(leave-canada);
2005-4-4(#2219959@0)
who said a good man over 40 must get married or should stay married? Marriage is a personal choice, not something naturally given.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-5{97}(#2222894@0)
to be married or single is not necessarily an indicator of a person's charactor -- man or woman.
is there any way that we can find out 安子 and "openyoureyes" is the same person? if it does, the movie will be up to the box office for sure.
-golfer(.);
2005-4-6(#2224615@0)