本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I had an English boyfriend when I lived in England.
Here is something about him.
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At the beginning days, he sometimes mentions about his ex-girlfriend. I am stone-faced when listening…later I become a bit annoyed. So once I tell him how I feel. He asks me: ‘if we break up, do you hope me to forget you very easily?’ ‘No’. I say. ‘Then you should know that I am a person who is serious about feelings.’ That’s true. As the time goes by, the memory about his ex is buried deep in his heart and does not pop up anymore.
Communication and understanding is the key in relationship.
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Once we get some tiny flowers from his dad. More exactly put it, they are more like grass, and the tiny stems, tiny gray leaves, and the white flowers are almost invisible. They look so messy. He plants them in the backyard, where I grow a lot of colorful flowers. Looking at them, they are so much not in harmony growing together.
Few days later, I pull out these pitiful flowers and throw them away. When he finds out and asks me, I tell him what happen. ‘Why you kill those flowers, they have lives. If you don’t like them in your backyard, you should plant them somewhere else instead of killing them’. ‘Don’t make a fuss, it’s not a killing’. Later, I tell my next-door neibourgh Jean, a retired nurse, surprisingly, she says exactly the same thing.
Several months after I move to Toronto, I heard a new that two Chinese visa students kidnapped a man for ransom. Finally they killed him. They are not 20 years old yet.
Life is something so valuable and fragile. It's worth cherishing, not only your life, but also other people’s lives.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
Here is something about him.
(1)
At the beginning days, he sometimes mentions about his ex-girlfriend. I am stone-faced when listening…later I become a bit annoyed. So once I tell him how I feel. He asks me: ‘if we break up, do you hope me to forget you very easily?’ ‘No’. I say. ‘Then you should know that I am a person who is serious about feelings.’ That’s true. As the time goes by, the memory about his ex is buried deep in his heart and does not pop up anymore.
Communication and understanding is the key in relationship.
(2)
Once we get some tiny flowers from his dad. More exactly put it, they are more like grass, and the tiny stems, tiny gray leaves, and the white flowers are almost invisible. They look so messy. He plants them in the backyard, where I grow a lot of colorful flowers. Looking at them, they are so much not in harmony growing together.
Few days later, I pull out these pitiful flowers and throw them away. When he finds out and asks me, I tell him what happen. ‘Why you kill those flowers, they have lives. If you don’t like them in your backyard, you should plant them somewhere else instead of killing them’. ‘Don’t make a fuss, it’s not a killing’. Later, I tell my next-door neibourgh Jean, a retired nurse, surprisingly, she says exactly the same thing.
Several months after I move to Toronto, I heard a new that two Chinese visa students kidnapped a man for ransom. Finally they killed him. They are not 20 years old yet.
Life is something so valuable and fragile. It's worth cherishing, not only your life, but also other people’s lives.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net