It's interesting. Because back to my time, it seems to be quite embarrasing to get married with a Canadian in Canada. It seems to be true in Europe too.

wade(wade)

I once read a thread started by a bunch of girls in Europe who got married with Europeans. One girl said: Getting married with a non-Chinese man is like a journey of no return. If you have a happy life ever after, good for you. If not......:( Every single of them had experience of being mistreated when they went back to China with their hubby or BF. It makes me wonder why in China, some girls still want to be on this journey. For girls oversea, it could be fate. But for girls in China, I don't know. Maybe spirit of adventure could overall overcome those fears.

sorry for typing so many pointless words. I am using a platform without Chinese input.

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从明天开始忘记ROLIA, 别总和中国人混在一起. -monet(周游); 2004-10-23 (#1944733@0)

绝对没想离开中国人的圈子,然而.......... -wenyiha(xiangshishiya); 2004-10-23 (#1944773@0)

MM,为什么非要找个黑人?有啥好??!!!!!(无种族歧视) -kek99(孤影夜归人); 2004-10-24 (#1946447@0)

有专门这样的婚介，不过我不清楚，是有一回看杂志上，一个婚介所写的文章，还写了中国人找老外要如何端正自己的期望什么什么的，不过也记不得是美国的还是加拿大的了，反正应该有吧 -ahappybird(happybird); 2004-10-23 (#1944749@0)

本人愚见，见过几个嫁老外的，没一个有真正幸福的，这里的饺子JJ可能是Exception。 -sleepyhead(sleepyhead); 2004-10-23 (#1944776@0)

本人愚见，见过几个嫁老中的，没一个有真正幸福的，sleepyhead可能是Exception。 -wade(wade); 2004-10-23 (#1944798@0)
赫赫，我认识大概有10来对吧，结婚短的有一两年的，长得有二三十年的，都过得好好的。只有一个有时看起来有些愁容，主要还是由于孩子们，老公与父母的沟通问题。 -hearts(hearts); 2004-10-23 (#1944808@0)

恩，可能是我过于为别人操心了。希望大家都过得幸福啊！呵呵 -sleepyhead(sleepyhead); 2004-10-23 (#1944817@0)

我觉得把自己定位好嫁什么样的人是恨嫁路上的笨办法。我相信饺子当年也不是冲着非嫁老外不可嫁的。至于幸福不幸福，肯定都有幸福的也都有不幸的，可能没有太直接关联。 -rainrain(妤雨我飞呀飞); 2004-10-23 (#1944812@0)

高见呀！ -sleepyhead(sleepyhead); 2004-10-23 (#1944818@0)
如果撇去金钱与物质生活不谈，单论生活文学艺术愛情等文化气息较浓的DD，不同文化背景的人生活在一起沟通起来要有很大的障碍。这正是我在思索的一個问题，就是嫁老外的女人与文学创作之间有没有比较大的关联。 -dts(独頭蒜※惜语如金); 2004-10-23 (#1944825@0)

个人有个人的幸福，8必操心太多~~~ -rainrain(妤雨我飞呀飞); 2004-10-23 (#1944828@0)

好象不是这样的，我认识的几个当年都是冲着老外嫁的，而且那时候都在国内，不冲着老外根本找不上老外的，都是点明了让老师了朋友了介绍的， -ahappybird(happybird); 2004-10-23 {68} (#1944947@0)
不过，都挺好，我觉得好些外国人其实比扎扎乎乎自我感觉良好的中国人强。

It's interesting. Because back to my time, it seems to be quite embarrasing to get married with a Canadian in Canada. It seems to be true in Europe too. -wade(wade); 2004-10-24 {658} (#1946162@0)
I once read a thread started by a bunch of girls in Europe who got married with Europeans. One girl said: Getting married with a non-Chinese man is like a journey of no return. If you have a happy life ever after, good for you. If not......:( Every single of them had experience of being mistreated when they went back to China with their hubby or BF. It makes me wonder why in China, some girls still want to be on this journey. For girls oversea, it could be fate. But for girls in China, I don't know. Maybe spirit of adventure could overall overcome those fears.

sorry for typing so many pointless words. I am using a platform without Chinese input.

你也开始吹BUBBLE了。 -hearts(hearts); 2004-10-24 {100} (#1946185@0)
用中文给你总结一下吧，传说中的幸福婚姻就象股市里的高额利润一样让大家豁出去了。。怎么样，翻译得如何？

:) -wade(wade); 2004-10-24 {263} (#1946206@0)
Very nice, thanks. Reading between the lines, we may reach the conclusion that: girls who 冲着老外嫁are silly. However, we all lost money during the hi-tech bubble time so who we are to say who is silly or not. (geez, i got to find a chinese software on Linux :()
Zhan!! -bettafish(better); 2004-10-25 (#1946938@0)

simple, BAR, CLUB. -lilyba(sunshine 顶风作案); 2004-10-23 (#1944951@0)

那也得身体皮实的才行. -keepbugging(独行的猫); 2004-10-24 (#1946148@0)

那也看是什么目的呀。前几天看电视说美国尚且还有48%的女性假装ORGASM，可见老外也有很多中看不重用的，呵呵。更何况你还要吃一辈子PIZZA，短暂婚姻还是可行的。 -laotu(老土); 2004-10-24 (#1946265@0)

Behave like you are their type, then you will have one. But what is the reason you want to marry caucasian? -bettafish(better); 2004-10-24 {1632} (#1946388@0)

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛couple of things you have to be awared before you go out with caucasians:

1. You have to have lots of interests, so you have lots of things to talk about.
2. You have to love sports, so you two can do things together
3. You like to go out a lot, like bars, clubbing, they'd like to make new friends.
4. You do not expect guys take care of your life. They expect you know how to do that.
5. You do not expect guys take care of the bills. Of course, most of them will take care of the bills, but there has some exceptions.
6. You do not expect that guys will pay attention to your mood swings till you'd like to talk about it. Never say 'Nothing', just tell them what do you complain about, they have no patient to guess what's in your mind.
7. When you are sick, do not expect they will cook chicken soup for you, but they will cheer you up while you have your empty stomach.
8. Do not except they will solve your problem. Your problem is your problem, I can not help, but what I think is ... blabla....
9. Prenup is very common fact.

Good thing about dating Caucasian:
1. Chinese girls are pretty, they always are. When they love you, they love the way you are. Wrinkle, they are beautiful wrinkle, freckle, they are cute, you gain weight, but you still look cute in my eyes, you will never overweight...
2. They love your inside, they are interested in your life, your personality, they'd like to dicover you, they like to discuss with you about everything,
3. They normally do not ask you make the compromise.
4. They trust you.
5. They give you freedom and let you be the way you are.
6. They are fun.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

sterotype -wade(wade); 2004-10-24 (#1946391@0)

It is "stereotype", anywho, that is personal opinions, till you get one, you won't realize the conflict. -bettafish(better); 2004-10-24 (#1946930@0)

You have no idea of what you are talking about. -wade(wade); 2004-10-25 (#1948309@0)

really? Please don't bother to reply my paste. -bettafish(better); 2004-10-26 (#1948765@0)

lavalife.com -chillyqq(Pumpkin Pie); 2004-10-24 (#1946522@0)

try this www.lavalife.com It works well but depends on individal. Please put what you want in rush. Let him crazy about you first. Then go from there. -gelatin(gelatin); 2004-10-25 (#1947323@0)

Sorry big mistake. It should be: Please do NOT put what you want in rush, though you really want to. -gelatin(gelatin); 2004-10-25 (#1947328@0)

try this one like her: #1947199 -table(桌子来了); 2004-10-25 (#1947341@0)

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It's interesting. Because back to my time, it seems to be quite embarrasing to get married with a Canadian in Canada. It seems to be true in Europe too.

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