本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛when i first started my job here,i always tried not to pick up the phone,listening quietly around canadians,tried talking as less as i could ,old chinese saying :silence is gold.but later on i found myself not happy at work,coz i couldn't really join them,i don't have friends and i do need friends at work to help me out to forgive me for some small mistakes.so i decided to hang out with them to have a beer or to an activity.so i showed my interests to join them and then i found their attitute towards me changed,they started liking me and teasing me and invite me for parties,they tell me that i've changed a lot and they like me.
so don't isolate yourself from them,join them ,show them that you are willing to have fun with them and to learn and work hard,lauguage should not be the biggest bareer between you and they but the attitute,don't give yourself too much pressure,give your best is so enought to have them accept you as a real member.be confident and positive,everything would be a fun .all the best更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
so don't isolate yourself from them,join them ,show them that you are willing to have fun with them and to learn and work hard,lauguage should not be the biggest bareer between you and they but the attitute,don't give yourself too much pressure,give your best is so enought to have them accept you as a real member.be confident and positive,everything would be a fun .all the best更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net