My husband came Canada earlier than me. When he left, I cryed till I cannot breathe. I didnot know if I can pass through such torture. Then no matter how busy we were, we talked every day for an hour and emailed every day. It's really a hard time. But we know there is one, although far away, always supporting us. In that year, we got to know and understood each other more. We treasure our marriage more. Now I am applying a university in another city , just like what you have done, for our better future. My husband supports my decision. Because he will try to find a job in that city. Good luck to you.