本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My husband and I share a 2 bedroom apt. with a lady who works here. Her husband and daughter live in another city and she often visits them on weekends. 今年二月她来之前问,她老公和女儿送她来,可否当晚住下,住两天再走。我说没问题。后来她女儿放假,周末一家又来住了两天。上周她说她女儿放假,要来住一星期,那口气不容商量,我实在说不出“不”字。早在她们一家三口住这时,我已经感到不方便了。用卫生间打架,冰箱拥挤。我们提供简单的家具给她:New Queen size bed&matress, a desk&chair, 一衣橱. The rent include all. We have a new small washer, also free for her.平时她可能把那边家里的衣服也拿来洗,我不想因此跟她红脸,从来不提。我们都比较自觉,相处还算愉快。但是我很受不了她家人也过来免费住。两室一厅三人share ok, but it's too crowded for 5 people(her daughter is as tall as her, not a kid). 昨天她女儿来住第一天,我深感太不便了。我不希望再有下一次,我下决心如果下次她再提出,我一定say no. But I really don't how to say no.请问怎么说才能不伤和气?是不是我心眼太小,根本不应该说?因为是第一次和别人share,it's new for me. 希望有类似经历的朋友出出主意,谢谢了先.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net