Unfortunately the word 两家人 is a negative word in China. It has hint meaning. 小姐 is a negative as well.
孝顺 is not represented by words. Who have gotten the real benefits?The parents! So why complain? Obviously author did not present his action well although what he said was true.
I believe that the western family definition is more natural. The most important relationship is the husband and wife then is the kids. Parents should try to avoid introduce the conflicts between the couples. Anywhere, anytime, the most important kernel element of a family is husband and wife.
It is not 用西方人的标准说中国人的事. It is to solve the problem and makes everybody happy.
孝顺 is not represented by words. Who have gotten the real benefits?The parents! So why complain? Obviously author did not present his action well although what he said was true.
I believe that the western family definition is more natural. The most important relationship is the husband and wife then is the kids. Parents should try to avoid introduce the conflicts between the couples. Anywhere, anytime, the most important kernel element of a family is husband and wife.
It is not 用西方人的标准说中国人的事. It is to solve the problem and makes everybody happy.