本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Write the words above (your feeling, your concern) in your dairy, and let him notice it. then discuss it with him (purpose: do not show him the words in rolia, that may hurt his selfrespect). From your words, I can feel he is feeling shamed for his current situation and get very depressed. And actually he is trying to escape from his responsibilities as a husband and as a man. Communicate with him, show him respect, show him love, and also let him know your feeling. Try to help him to rebuild confidence, and also let him realize his responsibilites in the family. When communicate, choce a good time, the time he is in good mood and willing to open his heart, such as after a romantic dinner out, a walking in the beautiful park, or after making love...
If still cannot work out, you may try seperate from him for a while, let him and yourself to live along for a period to see how both of you feel. Distance may let you two realize how important of each other, then he may change his way of treating u.
After all the efforts, should he still ignore u and ur feeling, still think making you happy is a waste of time , you may already dont feeling like to share heart with him. then go ahead, u really deserve a better life.
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If still cannot work out, you may try seperate from him for a while, let him and yourself to live along for a period to see how both of you feel. Distance may let you two realize how important of each other, then he may change his way of treating u.
After all the efforts, should he still ignore u and ur feeling, still think making you happy is a waste of time , you may already dont feeling like to share heart with him. then go ahead, u really deserve a better life.
Good luck更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net